New Forgiveness Research by Peter J. Larson, Ph.D. 01/27/03
Recently, we surveyed 200 married adults in regards to forgiveness. We were wondering how one's ability to forgive others would affect their marital satisfaction and personal well-being. The results were astounding! This research suggests that there is a huge relationship between marriage satisfaction and forgiveness. In fact, it appears that as much as one third of marriage satisfaction is related to forgiveness. Not only does the ability to forgive impact the marriage relationship, it was significantly related to personal emotional distress. As forgiveness ability went up, individuals reported fewer symptoms of depression, anxiety, and fatigue! These results are powerful and suggest that all counselors, both secular and faith-based, should be helping people develop the skill of forgiveness.
I Promise by Dr. Gary Smalley
After 10 years of research this book will help you to develop a marriage where you both have the freedom to be open & secure without fear of being criticized, blamed or judged by each other. A safe place where your relationship grows deeper naturally.