Do you ever wonder why that sweet, baby-powered bundle of joy who couldn't stand to be apart from you has turned into a tall stranger who wants to hide out in his room rather than be anywhere near you?

The years when a teenager is approaching the age at which he'll leave home—whether to go away for more education, for a job, or just to move out on his own—are a time when both parents and teens struggle to find their way. Communication can be tough. not only are your teens developing independence and logical thinking, they're also going through a major change in the way they see themselves. And you may be going through changes or stresses at the same time. There are many reasons why this time is so often fraught with conflict and miscommunication—and many of these reasons are quite natural.

The teen years can be tough times for any family, but in the same way you stay warm and dry within your home while wind and rain beat outside, your family can ride out the emotional storms in comfort and peace when you learn how to communicate effectively.

Put some positive energy toward understanding how to communicate to resolve rather than dissolve your most important relationships.

© Copyright 2004 Smalley Relationship Center

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